Persian Jewish Sofreh Aghd Decor

What's on the sofreh

A traditional sofreh includes a mirror and a pair of candelabras, representing light and the couple's future; decorated flatbread; a basket of eggs and bowls of nuts, symbolizing fertility and abundance; honey for sweetness; sugar cones, which are grated over a cloth held above the couple; sweets; and flowers throughout. At Persian Jewish weddings, a Torah or prayer book takes the place of other holy books.

Families often provide heirloom pieces — especially the mirror and candelabras — and we design the spread around them.

Styling the spread

We build the sofreh on a low table or on the floor, with a backdrop behind the couple's seats. Flowers frame the mirror and candelabras and weave between the symbolic items, so the spread reads as one design. White flowers with gold and crystal are the classic look; blush and ivory or deeper jewel tones suit a more modern palette.

Sofreh and chuppah together

Couples combine the two in different ways. Some hold the chuppah and set the sofreh nearby for photos and family blessings. Others hold a separate sofreh ceremony before or after the chuppah. We design both in the same palette and plan the layout so guests can see each one, and so the transition between them is smooth.